Heal–Thrive–Enjoy

Helping Daughters of Difficult Mothers:

• Let go of the past
• Transform your childhood wounds into wisdom
• Enjoy a life you’ve always wanted

Let me ask you something–how do you feel right now?

Fulfilled, successful, and content? Calm, confident, and strong? Empowered, healthy, and hopeful?

Or instead, do you feel:

• Anxious, worried, and sad
• Never good enough, full of self-doubt and shame
• Lonely and misunderstood
• Like your body and/or the world around you aren’t real anymore
• That your mind is fuzzy; you can’t think or you feel stupid
• Overwhelmed with stress and exhaustion
• Stuck in the blame-anger-victim role
• Worn out and craving relief
• Need to let go of the past and create a change

You know that something isn’t right in your life, but you don’t know exactly what’s going on.

Growing up in a dysfunctional family is an experience not everyone would understand. It has left scars on our bodies, minds, and souls.

It’s time to talk to someone who knows what you are going through.

I can help you to feel:

Let me help you to choose goals that are aligned with your values, so you can (re)claim your personal freedom and live the life you’ve always wanted.

“Be strong enough to stand alone, smart enough to know when you need help, and brave enough to ask for it.”
~ Mark Amend

Let me be your confidant, accountability partner, and mentor.
Don’t waste your time waiting and hoping for a change to happen, or for happiness to come. Instead, work for it.
Find out what needs to be done, make a little change today, and enjoy results for the rest of your life.

Commit to yourself and make your life sparkle.

Uncertain how?

SOS Call

Get clarity on what’s going on

Let me help you, quickly and effectively.

Book now and you will get:

• An online session with me within 48 hours max (except Sundays)
• A compassionate listener and a sparring partner to help you understand your current situation and see possible goals
• Help to calm your nervous system and feel more confident
• Ideas on how to get unstuck

Your investment for a 45-minute session: €147.
A double 1.5-hour session: €247.

VPN Email Consultation 

Do you have burning questions like: 

Is my mother a narcissist? 

How do I stop my mother from getting to me and set firm boundaries with her?

My mother keeps saying hurtful things to me, and if I protest, she tells me I need a shrink. I feel so confused, like my whole world and everything I believed was wrong. Am I overthinking this? How can I move forward now? 

My mother and father keep undermining me, so I keep my distance from my mother, but my father keeps phoning me every evening to complain about his life. He wants to be in control and doesn't like boundaries, so I'm slightly at a loss with him. How do I move forward from here and build a happy life? 

I am working to heal. It feels like I'm climbing a mountain. I want the pain, the sadness, the rage, the hurt to stop. Does processing these feelings ever end? I can't help wondering.

Can you tell me how long it took you to heal? And what worked best for you? Was it in the end forgiveness like the start of this, your article?

I am in my forties, and I still have trouble dealing with my relationship with my mother. It is coming to a point where it affects my professional life because I think I sometimes get into a rut where I believe her words and fear that I am not good enough. What's wrong with me?

I really just want to know that I'm not alone and that what I am experiencing is really not normal and that I should not feel guilty. I always have thoughts of feeling guilty for trying to disconnect myself from my mother. I want to know how others are coping with these feelings and thoughts. 

I have an amazing husband and two wonderful kids. My professional life is very satisfying, and I have a few good friends. Why am I still miserable each time my mother is in a picture?

You want your questions answered, but you are:

• not keen on face-to-face sessions
• an introvert who likes having time to think before you speak
• under severe time pressure
• you're often on the road, which makes it hard to make appointments
• you tend to forget things quickly after a life consultation

I have a solution for you.

Book your exclusive email consultation directly with me – no assistants involved. 

Choose between two options:

Single Email Consultation 

Here's how it works: 
You send me an email with up to 2 related questions or requests.
Make sure to provide relevant background information.

You get:
A detailed answer directly from me, including relevant advice(s) and links. 

Your investment: €47.

Multiple Emails Consultation

Here's how it works: 
We exchange up to five emails during 30 days. 
Make sure to disclose relevant background information before asking your questions.

You get:
Detailed replies directly from me, including relevant advice(s) and links. 

Your investment: €197. 

When to expect an answer from me:
Max 48 hours after I receive your email, except for weekends and holidays. Although I always strive to reply in a shorter time. 

Whether you need an answer to a question, reassurance, or support, I will help you get unstuck, clear your thoughts, and see the next step so that you can relax and move forward. 

Write your question in the calm of your home using all the time you need. Read my answers as many times as you need - you don't have to worry that you will forget them.